Ok so basically I know this girl and I'd like to go out with her, but she isn't interested in dating or relationships right now. So I said I just want to be friends, but for me its not working out and I want to get away, especially since I just found out she is hooking up with all these guys (many of whom I know). The problem is I can't stop thinking about her. I don't want to tell her how to run her life: "why the f are you hooking up with all these guys", but I don't know that to do. -mcduckson
Lets look at this objectively for a second before we delve into the possible solutions to this problem:
a) you seem like a decent guy with pure intentions to befriend a female whom you find attractive and interesting
b) this girl does not find interest in engaging in a real relationship at the moment because…
c) she is too busy trying to catch an STD from one of numerous guys that you happen to know
From my assessment, I feel that it is imperative that your next course of action is to remove yourself from the emotional vice she is holding you in, whether or not her intentions are as such. This female is in the point in her life where she is enjoying the freedoms of singleness and has no desire to be tied down by the moral obligations of commitment. If you are truly a friend and looking for her best interests, I would possibly mention that the road she is traveling is narrow and fraught with despair, but from the looks of it she will not take kindly to your sound advice and will assume you're just jealous that your friends are gettin some and you, in fact, are not.
Just get out, before you drive yourself insane.
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