how do you deal with the female player? such as a girl who is super cool and cute, but gets what she wants when she wants it…if I’m a guy who can’t share with others, then what’s a guy to do?
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This is a rather tricky problem considering as her main attraction feature set has the ability to intimidate “nice guys” from pursuit. Her confidence exudes sexy and since it’s not managed with an on/off switch, you’re often not alone in this assessment. Typically, recognizing these types of females are as simple as answering the following questions:
Is she always accompanied by 2+ male associates?
Does she lack the ability to have meaningful conversation with other females?
When asked about the dude leaving her room in the morning, she says all they did was sleep?
If you answered yes to the above, then you’re probably dealing with a typical female player. The solution to this problem is to either a) run away like a coward or b) fight fire with fire.
At the very core of the female psyche is a small girl who wants to be held and treated like a princess. The only difficulty is stripping away the layers of armor that she has built up through “self-esteem” classes and “yoga”. To accomplish this, one only needs to mirror the confidence and self-assurance that she exudes. Even venturing into the “bad guy” persona may be necessary to catch her attention and break down the barriers separating one from his mark. Indifferent persistence is crucial as she’ll sniff out your intentions if you show your hand too early. Keep some distance and always complain about how all the females you’re shagging are so intellectually dull that it appears the perfect specimen will never appear. She’ll subconsciously take this as a challenge and attempt to conquer these perceptions personally.
As with all games, learn the rules, be patient, and work smart (not hard). Success is only one roofie away.
yes. you need to be a dragon to fight a dragon.
also, being bad guy always works. at least for me. sometimes.
i disagree. i eat boys like mike for breakfast. he is just full of hot air.
p.s. i kill ninjas for fun. visit my site at http://www.ninjakiller.com.
One can think of women like stocks. A stock may be hot at the time, because everyone is trying to buy up shares, driving up the price. That doesn’t mean there is any value there. She may turn out to be an Enron, only getting by on inflated books. Then again, she may actually be a highly desirable commodity with actual value and tremendous growth potential. In this situation, you need to consider the Price to Earnings ratio or how much time you’re willing to invest to gain her. She may be priced out of your budget or she may be too expensive and there may be other good deals out there. Price irregularities results from incomplete information. You need to spend time and really get to know and understand her, before you can determine that she is an adequate investment.
There is also the Warren Buffett approach. You can go with the not as sexy options that have good books and a solid business model. Sometimes what’s hot and sexy today totally crashes in the future. If you stick with something that is solid, it is sure to pay off in the long run.
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I’m a “Good Guy”. Nice, always, but with an edge that they want. I still get walked on and am sick of it. I’m dealing with a 45 yr. old Gal now, tough love, don’t question why my guy friend is over helping me when I am out of town type gal. She’s Christian, will not sleep with someone before marriage anymore, etc., but I wonder…
Now I am getting the silent treatment for a few days now. What should I do?